Hi there!

I’m Elissa Ashwood, breast cancer survivor.
Cancer can’t take away the kind of beautiful
that comes from the inside out.

In 2012, I wore dresses to my 33 treatments and posted as I went.
And now I’m wearing one dress a week to keep this spirit going.
These 33 dresses are a symbol of living our lives no matter what.

Let this be a reason to use your good stuff in support of someone you love going through cancer! Check out this video from my best friend.

It doesn’t have to be dresses. It doesn’t have to be 33.

Join me in your own way! Wear a dress or your jewelry, use your china, buy flowers, go fishing. Let’s not look back on life wondering why we waited for a special occasion to break out the good stuff!

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We’re all in it together

Posted: May 21st, 2013 by Elissa - 5 Comments

I couldn’t possibly not share this conversation with my nine year old this morning…

Him: “Mom, it’s really cool that you help people all around the world with cancer.
In your business, do you cure cancer too?”

Me: Damn, I wish I could. “No, but I encourage people to enjoy their lives whether they have cancer or not.”

Him: “Like doing things they’ve always wanted to do?”

Me: “Yes, but not so much big things, like climbing mountains, more like little things.”

Him: “Like going fishing with a friend.”

Me: “Like that.”

Him: Thinking…. “You know, it might be getting a little boring just writing about your life, and your grandparents.” (by which he means his grandparents)

Me: “Oh, hmm. What should I write about instead?

Him: “Bald cancer.”

Me: You see why I love this kid. “Ah. You know, that’s not a different kind of cancer, it’s the medicine to treat the cancer that makes your hair fall out. But it comes back after a while.”

Him: ”They need a new kind of medicine.”

Me: “Yes, they do.

Him: Thinking….“Write about how all the grandparents and Uncle Rich came in to all stay at our house together for daddy’s graduation, even though Grandma Crystal and Grandpa Bob aren’t still married, and how we had a really good time together.”

Me: “Isn’t that still writing about grandparents?”

Him:It’s writing about family. We’re all in it together.”

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I couldn’t possibly add more wisdom.

Have a wonderful, wonderful day, and find a way to bring your own hodgepodge of a family together.